8 Important Considerations Before Filing for Divorce

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If you have come to the difficult determination that you need a divorce, there are eight informative basics you should take into careful consideration. Understanding these guidelines can help you move forward toward divorce with the purpose and confidence you need to make it to the other side. Finally, if you are divorcing, you need an experienced Central Texas divorce attorney on your side.

Sanitize Your Social Media Posts

If you have posted anything remotely questionable, take it down. While such posts can live on once deleted (via screenshots and other means), removing them demonstrates that you have the maturity and sense to recognize the inherent inappropriateness. Further, keep your social media accounts spotless moving forward.

Do Not Threaten Your Spouse

Sending threatening, berating, or belittling texts, emails, voicemails, or calls will very likely come back to haunt you. If your spouse engages in such behavior, keep careful records of the activity.

Understand the Standing Orders in Your Jurisdiction

Many Texas jurisdictions have orders directing divorcing spouses not to transfer money from joint accounts and not to make purchases that are not related to reasonable living expenses. Your experienced Central Texas divorce attorney will help you better understand those orders that apply to your jurisdiction.

Neither Coach Your Children nor Involve Them in Litigation

Only in the most extreme circumstances should you involve your children in litigation, and never coach your children about how to respond if they are asked questions related to the divorce.

Change All of Your Personal Passwords

Keep your own personal accounts protected by changing your passwords, but remember that it is illegal to change passwords on any joint accounts.

Do Not Obtain Illegal Evidence

Downloading information off of your spouse’s computer or phone is likely illegal, and the information obtained will not only be inadmissible in your case but can also lead to hefty fines.

If You Fear Domestic Violence, Protect Yourself

If you are afraid that you and/or your children are in danger of domestic violence, do whatever is necessary to protect yourselves. Resources are available.

Do Not Be So Hard on Yourself

Cut yourself some slack by recognizing that divorce is a very difficult and anxiety-provoking process that is going to trip you up from time to time. Give yourself permission not to be perfect and seek the additional support you need.

If You Are Facing Divorce, Call an Experienced Central Texas Divorce Attorney

Attorney Brett H. Pritchard at The Law Office of Brett H. Pritchard in Central Texas understands exactly how difficult the divorce process can be, and he is here to help you navigate the path toward your case’s most positive resolution. Mr. Pritchard has the experience, skill, knowledge, and compassion to help ensure that you and your children’s rights are well protected throughout. For more information, please do not hesitate to contact or call us at (254) 220-4225 today.
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